So a few months ago friends of ours decided to get divorced.
My husband and I were so saddened by it since we loved them both very much.
Plus side- they are still young, and didn’t have children yet.
To read more about it, click here.
The other week, my friend was at my house and we started talking about her ex husband. My husband and I said that we missed him- which we do, and she said that he’s on facebook and that he would probably be happy to hear from us (we lost touch with him for a while, and didn’t want to ask this friend for her ex’s number).
My husband and I sent him a friend request and so we became friends a few days later. When I originally friend requested him, I saw that we happen to have a friend in common (an old co-worker).
A few days after we became “friends”, this old co-worker sends me a private message asking me how me and my daughters are doing, and then proceeds to ask me how I know this male friend we have in common.
I didn’t know how to respond, so I pretty much said I’ve known him for a few years.
She replies back that she has been out with him a few times and that she seems to like him- but that they are not exclusive (though she seemed as though she wanted to be), and proceeds to tell me “Well, maybe you can put in a good word for me- haha”
I have no idea what to say.
Now she wants to meet me for coffee to “catch up”
I call B.S- she just wants to get all close to me because of him.
Should I tell my friend about this situation (the ex wife) or should I leave it as is?
My old co worker is trying to get me involved, and I am NOT having it. After all, my friend should not have a problem with her ex dating right? I mean- she’s the one that said she wasn’t in “love” with him anymore and wanted the divorce. Does that mean that she wants him to be alone forever?
Damn you FB. This never would have happened before you!
Advice people, what would you do!?